Dragonflies are larger, usually with a body legth of between 35 and 85mm. Their bodies are sturdy and at rest their wings are held more or less at right angles to their body. Many species are more likely to be seen flying than perched.
Damselflies are altogether much daintier with slim bodies and most have an overall legth of between 30 and 40mm, although the Demoiselles are a bit larger. They are weak fliers, so are more likely to be seen perched when they almost all fold their wings back along their abdomen.
Both dragons and damsels require water to reproduce as the larvae develop in the bottom of ponds or slow-moving streams. You may get dragonflies in a garden pond but the best place to see them is in the Combe Valley as the pools, ditches and reed-beds are ideal breeding places.